Pre-Marriage Guide · Resource Guide No. 01
Seven Questions to Ask Before, and After, You Marry
The conversations every couple needs to have, whether you are preparing to say "I do" or you have been married for twenty years.
The seven questions
A strong marriage is not built on finding the perfect person. It is built on constant, honest and courageous communication. Each question below opens one conversation worth having.
Mission & Purpose
What is our "Why"? Why are we together, and what is our shared mission for this world?
Conflict & Repair
How do we handle the hard moments? When we disagree, do we fight to win, or do we fight for the relationship?
Financial Stewardship
Whose money is it, anyway? How will we manage our resources to reflect our shared values?
Family & Legacy
What are we carrying from our past? Which traditions are we keeping from our parents, and which are we leaving behind?
Intimacy & Connection
How do we stay known? Beyond the physical, how are we maintaining emotional and spiritual intimacy?
Growth & Ambition
Who are we becoming? How can I support your growth without losing our collective identity?
Faith & Values
What is our foundation? When the storms of life hit, what shared foundation keeps us grounded?
What is inside the full guide
- The reasoning behind each question and why it matters for your marriage
- Two discussion prompts per question to take the conversation deeper
- A simple date night script for working through the guide together, one question at a time
- A scripture anchor for each conversation
Clarity creates unity, and unity creates strength.
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